• What I Learned From a Year of Intense Dating

    What I Learned From a Year of Intense Dating

    In the year before I met the woman who is now my wife, I was dating with purpose. I didn’t necessarily aim to find a wife, but I was pretty intentional about what I was doing. And since I ended up finding an amazing woman and marrying her, I figured I’d share what I learned…

  • How to Enjoy Museums

    How to Enjoy Museums

    I used to be neutral, or maybe slightly negative on museums. There was something pleasant about being in them, but I didn’t really know what I was supposed to do there, and always felt like I was doing it wrong. And it turned out I was doing them wrong. I was introduced to a guy…

  • The Three Books I Most Recommend

    The Three Books I Most Recommend

    To be honest, I don’t read a ton anymore. I had a couple years where I read 50-100 books per year and that had the effect of exposing me to just about every book anyone had ever recommended to me and burning me out a little bit. I still read a bit, but not like…

  • How to Make 1000 Mistakes a Day and Still be Happy

    How to Make 1000 Mistakes a Day and Still be Happy

    A friend of mine was telling me about how she struggled with regret, specifically around cryptocurrency. Why hadn’t she sold at the top? Why hadn’t she bought more when it was lower? The questions nagged at her and she would beat herself up about it. Like her, I didn’t sell at the top or buy…

  • How to Plow Through Work and Still Produce Quality

    How to Plow Through Work and Still Produce Quality

    Two years ago CruiseSheet didn’t have individual informational pages for each cruise. Cruises are large purchases, though, so I thought that it would be much better if I could have a lot of written information, graphs, and pictures. With around 12,000 cruises on offer at any time, the selection changing every day, writing them individually…

  • Reflecting on Superhuman 2

    Reflecting on Superhuman 2

    Two weeks ago, ten people came to Las Vegas to participate in my event, Superhuman 2. When I did the first one a year earlier I was nervous about how everyone would get along and how I would fill the time in a useful way. This year, even with a much longer format, my only…

  • What I Learned Building a Cabin in the Woods

    What I Learned Building a Cabin in the Woods

    In 2017 I built a small cabin in the woods of Nova Scotia. I did almost none of the building, but did do most of the design of the cabin and am now doing the follow-up work on it. Building a cabin is shockingly cheap. It’s one of those situations where you get about 80%…

  • A Guide to Good Sleep

    A Guide to Good Sleep

    Sometimes I wonder if I’m annoying because I talk so much about good sleep, but even when I talk to readers about it, it seems like almost no one actually prioritizes and gets good sleep. This is amazing to me, as it’s actually a pretty pleasant and easy way to get a huge boost in…

  • Extended Travel in Relationships

    Extended Travel in Relationships

    Maintaining a healthy relationship while traveling can be hard, but it doesn’t have to be. Like anything, there are pros and cons, and by mitigating the cons and focusing on the pros, you can even make it a good thing. As someone who travels for the majority of the year, I have a lot of…

  • How to Plan a Group Trip With Friends

    How to Plan a Group Trip With Friends

    I love planning trips for my friends. I think that it’s a great way to do a service to my friends, to spend time with them, and to foster new connections between them. I believe that if all of my friends are good friends with each other, that makes my friend circle very strong. The…