• Gratitude 2018

    Gratitude 2018

    I’m always grateful for everything in my life, but when I think about what I’m most grateful for this year, family and friends are my immediate focus. I’m incredibly grateful for the people in my life now, the people who have played a role in my life, and for all of the high quality time…

  • How to Love Living in Las Vegas

    How to Love Living in Las Vegas

    I absolutely love living in Las Vegas. Even if cost was not a factor, I would choose living there over any other city in the world (ok, I’d have to think hard about Tokyo). This generally surprises people who don’t live in Las Vegas (and even some who do), and would have surprised me at…

  • How to Enjoy Crossword Puzzles

    How to Enjoy Crossword Puzzles

    In my every day normal routine in Las Vegas there are two events to which I look forward each day. The first is dinner at Chipotle. I still eat there virtually every day when it’s an option, and still delight in it every time. The second is when I get the notification at the top…

  • Superhuman 2 Event in March 2019

    Superhuman 2 Event in March 2019

    I’ve been hearing back recently from some of the attendees of the first event and have been blown away by the progress that they’ve been making. Talking to them has motivated me to schedule the next event and work with a new group of people. The event will be two days of working closely with…

  • How to Become Interesting

    How to Become Interesting

    This is a topic that seems arrogant to even write about, but two people have asked me to write a blog post about it, so I’m going to take a stab at it. We all have strengths and weaknesses, and one of my strengths is that I have had a fairly interesting life. This has…

  • Ways to Provide Fun Experiences For Your Friends

    Ways to Provide Fun Experiences For Your Friends

    One of my biggest pleasures in life is creating opportunities for my friends and family. There are a lot of things I do all the time, but when I think of who I am by definition, I think of myself as someone who tries to create things for his friends. This is what drives all…

  • Brain Training

    Brain Training

    There is one fundamental tool I use all the time, because it’s so adaptable. I use it for myself and for a large number of my clients. I don’t know if there’s some official name for it, but I think of it as brain training. We will all naturally gravitate towards activities that we find…

  • Why Drinking Alcohol is a Bad Idea

    Why Drinking Alcohol is a Bad Idea

    This post was suggested by a drinker, which I thought was pretty funny. He goes back and forth on it, though, so maybe he’s on the fence and I can help push him to one side (hopefully my side). I don’t drink. I’ve had five sips total in my life, three of them accidental. I’ll…

  • The Starting Out Blueprint

    The Starting Out Blueprint

    When I asked readers and friends for blog post ideas, one of the most common I got was what they’d suggest for someone just starting out. One guy said a 15 year old homeless orphan (I guess to remove any possibility of a leg up), and another asked about his teenage son, but the gist…

  • Thoughts on Relationships

    Thoughts on Relationships

    I get asked a lot to write about relationships, probably because I used to be involved in pickup and it seems strange to some that I’m now married (though from my perspective getting married is an obvious outcome of getting good at pickup/dating). I’m always a bit hesitant to write about it, because relationships are…