Hey Tynan, long-term lurker with a question about marriage.

I got married years ago and things were great at first but now we feel more like roommates and less like a team. Do you and your wife have shared goals / vision / spending habits? What keeps the relationship together?

Sometimes I feel like if my marriage ends I can still "play the field" a bit, as I still feel young. Obviously this thought does not help my situation. Perhaps you did this when you were a pickup artist and this doesn't appeal to you anymore, and you prefer the stability of a constant partner.

Thoughts?