So I've been dating this guy almost a yr now...he's kind of a hippie...so his way of thinking is diff. Than most.

And I love that about him.

But. While we were away for his bff bday trip last wkend he really gets it across that he doesn't want me to do anything for his "birthdy". So I asked if I cld just make him dinner one day...totally he says.

So today I text him. Just being playful.

When I fnd out he didn't want any bday celebrations. Fine. We cld stay in and hang out all wkend. But I made some flirty jokes. Being a good gf. And thought we cld take that route...nope. he wasn't having any of it. Which is fine....but a cpl wks ago I bought him some new jeans and a belt. I had planned on not wrapping it up already. Just kind of leaving it out casually. If it can be..........but now that its so close..and he's gotten more serious about my not doing anything for him.

I'm worried he might even be offended no matter how I get it to him.

Maybe I cld lv them in his laundry basket at the end of the wkend. B4 I lv...then its not his bday......I just don't know.. I wanna respect his wishes...but he really needs new jeans..and there must be a way to give them without offending....especially cause it seems like he's been hurt. Not just that he doesn't believe....HELP!! Please.