I respect your decision to not drink or smoke. As a matter of fact im proud of you for keeping such a strong standing on this. I must say though that just because you do drink or smoke, that does not make you a bad person. I Drink and smoke weed, have a 3.4 in school. Active in clubs and have tons of friends who dont drink or smoke. I don't think im a bad person. Its all about knowing yourself, if you dont want to drink or smoke thats fine. I do, do I force others to? no. If they tell me they want to try it am I going to say no? nope... Its all about keeping yourself under control and knowing your limits.