I mean when it comes to groups of people, I don't know like I have a group of friends who drinks and smokes pot, and I have a group of friends who don,t... When I am with the group that drinks and smokes pot, I'll have a few drinks and smoke a joint. But when I am with the other grou that doesn't do any of these things I can abstain and still have a great time! I dunno it just bothers me that people think that they are too cool, or too abstinent, or too proper to chill with a certain group because they have absolutely no experience in what that group participates in