Cool, you don't like to drink and i respect that. But I'd like to point something out..
Some people, like me, have many social filters that they cannot get around without the aid of alcohol.
Sure, I can go out and not drink, but I honestly do not find the benefits of staying sober than having a few drinks and that's just me. We're all different and consider yourself lucky to not need to consume any alcohol.
Alcohol helps break my inhibitions and socialize easier with many people that I would otherwise not be able to hold a conversation with. I have met many individuals through parties and alcohol use.
If someone could show me how to have GENUINE FUN, get TONS of girls, and make personal connections with strangers without drinking, then that would be a different story.
And I know I have a self-esteem, I am just a little SHY and need a drug to loosen me up. Thanks..