I know this is a really old post, but I hear ya. I'm a rising senior in college and I have never smoked, drank, or done drugs. I had a small group of good friends during my freshman year who didn't do any of those things either, and I always had a blast with them. Three years later, and not one of them is left: all of them drink. One even tried drugs, and I'm not sure whether he's done them again. I can't stand being around drunk people, and I immediately vacate the premises if people start drinking. I can't stand drunken behavior. One in this group, (she very rarely drinks), somehow assumed I wanted to go to a progressive; not to drink but to "have fun". No thanks.