I loved your post. I have not met many people who can proudly say-"I don't drink". I have always taken pride in myself for being able to enjoy, and be happy without drinking at all. I agree that most people drink for a reason. I do not drink and enjoy life and am lucky to have lots of friends. I disagree with people who say-'oh, a little bit of wine doesn't do anything', well then why drink-it definitely does 'something'-it is used as a crutch as you mentioned. I grew up in a family where drinking was considered 'bad', that is the reason that i have such strong beliefs. I think that there would be a lot less crimes (murders, rapes, etc.) in the world if there was no drinking. And please dont get me wrong-i am not saying that people who drink are criminals... many would just behave better otherwise.