Tynan, I'm bummed we didn't get to hang out while you were in LA. But if you need a travel buddy at any location, I'm all set to come. Just email me.
BTW, I didn't drink for 27-years, and I do now. I can say that all it takes it a remote bit of self-discipline and alcohol doesn't control your actions. I think it's an excuse most of the time for bad behaviour.
Whenever I'm "tipsy" I can always refocus (if I need to), step outside the influence and concentrate on my actions and thoughts because I've been disciplined for so many years. (Used to be Mormon).
That doesn't justify drink driving or anything else e.g. "I can handle it". That is a responsibility that you work out before hand with others.