hey
I don't drink and neither do my closest friends. My boyfriend went to grad school and picked up the habit. Actually its strange coz he always orders but never finishes his drink. But he took up smoking heavily. At first I was hurt, then raging mad and now I have given up. One reason I feel in love with him was the fact that he was strong enough not to use any substance! But I guess that was to change .... thanks for sharing your post! it was a good read.