Hey MoC,
First of all, this might get messy. So before we get to business, I want you to know that I genuinely do appreciate you reading my blog, even if you disagree with my sage advice.
Look... I'm not saying "feel bad because you're overweight". I'm saying "Look... set a higher standard.". I see A TON of girls who have that extra 5-10 pounds that they would probably like to lose, but they find that they can get an OK guy without it, so they shrug it off. I'm saying NO - go the extra mile. You've probably realized that I follow this philosophy pretty strictly - I always go the extra mile.
As for numerical rating? Get over it. No girl can be boiled down to a number, but when I say "7", you know what I'm talking about, as does every other guy. If a girl wants to call me a 7, I'm not going to lose any sleep over it.
Lastly, I was joking about being humble. I'm not humble. I'd rather be honest than modest, and I really do think I'm super great.