Boys, jeez, come on. We're female, not an alien race you can never understand. We have the same feelings, inner dialogues, fears, urges and more or less exactly the same plumbing as you do, just inside out. Speak to us, act like a person and forget all the playa and pick-up stuff. It is all about selling you a skill you already have.
BTW, I will totally answer any questions about women you need answered. Send me an email. What I have to offer is fairly common sense stuff, though. Respect the object of your affection as a person, don't act like an ass and try to restrain the hormones at least till we know your first name and you know ours.