Dating Advice for Women

I don’t usually give dating advice to women, but recently two of my female friends have been asking me a lot about dating, so I figured I’d consolidate some of the stuff we’ve been talking about here. Some of this stuff will apply to men, too, but for once I wanted to focus on the… Continue reading Dating Advice for Women

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How to Become Interesting

This is a topic that seems arrogant to even write about, but two people have asked me to write a blog post about it, so I’m going to take a stab at it. We all have strengths and weaknesses, and one of my strengths is that I have had a fairly interesting life. This has… Continue reading How to Become Interesting

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Thoughts on Relationships

I get asked a lot to write about relationships, probably because I used to be involved in pickup and it seems strange to some that I’m now married (though from my perspective getting married is an obvious outcome of getting good at pickup/dating). I’m always a bit hesitant to write about it, because relationships are… Continue reading Thoughts on Relationships

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Knowing When You’re Boring and Avoiding It

You know that feeling when you’re sitting across from someone and they’re prattling on about something in which you have no interest? They aren’t actually trying to bore you, they just don’t know any better. Which begs the question—are you ever that person? In reality I’m sure we all bore someone sometimes, but we can… Continue reading Knowing When You’re Boring and Avoiding It

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How to Relate to Others

I have to admit that I never thought that I’d write a blog post on how to relate to others. For most of my life I realized that I wasn’t particularly empathetic but didn’t prioritize changing that. Then I met a very empathetic friend (she wrote The Charisma Myth) and she just point blank told… Continue reading How to Relate to Others

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Build Things With Your Friends

A couple years ago I became obsessed with the idea of buying an island. I mean, I’d always been obsessed with it, but my obsession shifted from the idea of buying the island into the action of buying it. I wasn’t fantasizing about the things I’d build on the island– I was looking up property… Continue reading Build Things With Your Friends

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Superhuman Social Skills is Now Available! Free Today Only on Kindle!

Whew! Superhuman Social Skills is Officially available! I’d like to hype up this book and tell you how proud I am of it, and how much early readers have liked it, but instead I’ll do you one better. If you’re reading this on Tuesday September 29th, the book is available for free! Please download it… Continue reading Superhuman Social Skills is Now Available! Free Today Only on Kindle!

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2015 Dating Update

It’s more than halfway through the year, which means I’m overdue for an update on my dating situation. If you’re just tuning in now, I took three years off dating with the intention of looking for a serious relationship, starting January 1st 2015. Thanks to an introduction from a reader, I met a fantastic girl… Continue reading 2015 Dating Update

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