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How I Became a Famous Pickup Artist : Part 2

This is a continuation of the story, How I Became a Famous Pickup Artist Part 1. If you haven't read that already, you should do so before reading this article.

Papa was notorious for being in contact with everyone in the pickup scene. I couldn't blame him, either - he was the business side of "Real Social Dynamics", a company that taught seminars and workshops to aspiring players. Not surprisingly, he was the only person at the seminar that I knew.

In order to extract every last precious second out of my experience, I had gotten on the earliest flight to Chicago that I could book. I called Papa when I arrived at the hotel at 10am. I could hardly make out his voice. He'd been out in the clubs until very late and was still sleeping.

The Paycheck Paradox

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I sat in a room once, and the speaker asked us all if we wanted financial independence. Everyone put their hand up, but it was explained, most don't value saving and understanding their money, it’s just a vision in the back of their mind. Everyone wants to live off interest, delegate away uninspiring tasks, and maybe have a red car, capable of driving high speeds..

I’m just a student, but I learned a powerful lesson when I lost my last job that was less demanding and stressful than my current one. It also payed much more, so from a financial perspective, I was doing better. Working harder for less? (Nobody wants that!)

But in some kind of bizarre paradox, I find myself with more money than I had before, and I’m more conscious of my savings and goals. I didn’t love my job, so I was excited about what I’d have for lunch, what I’d buy with my paycheck. As a result I had large amounts of stuff, most of which I ended up selling for a tenth of the price.. Because I didn’t really need it all anyway..

I thought the best jobs were sinecures, where I could leave at 5pm with no concern or care, and collect a decent cheque. Now I'm glad to have activity in my job, and more to think about. When people work hard together, there's a sense of spirit and humour, you can’t buy a one-day seminar and attempt to create that culture. The people I work with are one of the most important things about my job, I guess this is a bit like russian roulette; you have no idea what that cute girl is going to be like to work with.

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