One thing that's been on my mind for the longest time was how to have
great experiences. Basically, there are two ways to have great experiences.
Either you plan what you want to experience, and ways of achieving that
experience, or you say yes to opportunities for experiences that come
your way.
One thing that's been on my mind for the longest time was how to have
great experiences. There are two ways to have great experiences.
Either you plan what you want to experience, and ways of achieving that
experience, or you say yes to opportunities for experiences that come
your way.
My problem was I thought of these two methods as separate. I thought
you either do one or the other. Take for example travel. If I
completely plan my trip: where i will stay, what i will see/do; I may
miss out on great opportunities to explore. Yet, if I leave my schedule
too open for opportunities, opportunities may never come your way, and I
just might end up with no place to sleep. More importantly, this
problem arises when thinking about my career. If I completely plan my
career path lets say marketing consultant, then I may miss out on
opportunities to be a manager, designer, sales representative,
accountant, engineer, firefighter...you get the idea. But if I don't plan
my life, I probably won't even make it being a marketing intern, I
might just pick a job that seems comfortable work there for life.
I've concluded that these two methods however, don't have to be
separate. In Life Nomadic, Tynan writes that planning is essential for
your trip, but you should be ready to ditch those plans at any moment.
This is the same in life, planning should be meticulously done, but
always ready to be thrown away and re-planned.