• A Cute True Story

    More than fifty years ago, my mother’s father went to a dance. Back then that was how you met people. The room was divided into two sides. The guys were standing near one wall, and the girls were at the other. In the middle were a few couples dancing, but more prominent was the wide…

  • Survey Says

    It’s about that time of the year for me to ask for your feedback to make BTYB even more better than it already is. What’s very curious to me is that my readership grows VERY slowly. Given how awesome these posts are, I would expect it to grow by 100% every hour or so. Anyway,…

  • How To Pack Everything You Own in a 28L Bag

    People keep asking for it and I keep meaning to do it, but then we always seem to be in a rush before leaving a country and we don’t have time to video me packing my bag. Japan was a little different, so we finally got it done. Unfortunately Todd’s real video camera is broken…

  • Why Don’t You Do It?

    This is something I’ve been wondering about recently, and I’m very interested in people’s (in depth?) responses. I have a billion things to work on, and a billion things that other people do better than me, so this isn’t meant to be a “look how great I am” post (like every other post on this…

  • Eight Months of Crossfit

    I’ve been doing Crossfit for the past eight months. The past two months have not been perfect, sometimes for valid reasons, sometimes not. I’d give myself an 85% for those two months and a 99% for the rest. I’sm getting off topic, but I feel like it’s necessary to address on my blog the times…

  • One Year

    Just over a year ago I was in this same place. It’s a short and touristy row of shops leading up to a temple in Asakusa, Japan. Last time I was here it was my first time in Japan, which meant that I was so enthralled with being there that I didn’t realize what a…

  • Northern Japan

    Northern Japan

    What a day. In an effort to totally avoid paying for hotels we have worked out an elaborate system of only taking night trains, where we can sleep as we travel. Today that landed us in Aomori, a small city in Northern Japan. After spending two hours researching things to do there, I had found…

  • Losing My Religion

    Something strange has been happening to me over the past year or so. I haven’t written much about it because I’m almost in denial that it’s happening. I’m caring far less about money. This is scary to admit. A lot of my identity, at least internally, is based around the desire and eventuality that I…

  • How I Became Weird

    When I was ten I went to a Christian summer camp called Camp Calumet. We stayed in cabins with our counselors and a dozen other kids. By a stroke of luck my best friend Ryan and I ended up in the cabin with the cool counselors. I don’t remember either of their names, or even…

  • Friends and Trains

    I had better write an article today. The pressure from the family is mounting and we’re about to take a mammoth train trip that will probably leave us internetless for a few days. We got our train passes and immediately headed out on our pilgrimage to Shikoku. It was awesome. We’d never seen rural Japan…