Right now I'm writing every single day, averaging around 4000 words. I have a big batch of writing I want to do, and I've broken it up over 10 days. This sounds like a daunting task, but I find it dead simple to complete, primarily due to one tactic that I often use.
I call it Do it or Nothing. The way it works is that you choose a task that you are supposed to do, and you give yourself two options. You can do the task, or you can stare at the task and do nothing. Very simple.
When you tell yourself that you have to do a task, every single option in the world is available for procrastination. There's no release valve. On a good day this doesn't matter because you just hunker down and get the work done, but on a bad day you're likely to hop around through whatever your favorite procrastination vices are.
Doing nothing creates an alternative, but a very boring one that has no stimulation, so you will only resort to it if you really need to. My options are to write or to stare at a blank text editor. That's it.
I often assign this task in various forms to new coaching clients, especially those with a history of procrastination. Write for an hour or stare at your book. Work for an hour or stare at your blank computer screen. Make your phone calls or stare at your phone.
There's a very common progression that people often follow. The first few days they don't actually do much. Nothing doesn't sound so bad, so they do nothing. But how many days of nothing can you really do? Everyone always gets annoyed and ends up just doing the work. One coaching client finished his book in just a few months that he had been putting off for years.
The larger principle here is making the thing that you ought to be doing the most stimulating thing that you can do. Rather than fight your upstream, you can just reverse the flow of the stream and make it easy to do what you're supposed to do.
Give it a try. Set aside a certain amount of time each day, choose a really important task, and then dedicate that time to doing the task or doing nothing. If you end up doing nothing, don't feel bad. After all, it's one of the permitted activities. Even if you spend a whole month doing nothing, that's fine. I doubt it will happen, though. In every case I've seen people end up doing more work than they would have otherwise, even if they do have a few days of nothing.
Photo is a sunset in Hilo, Hawaii. It's on the east side of the island so the sunsets aren't usually as good as the west side, but we get some decent ones.
Really interesting article! Reminds me of the principle: 'Embrace Boredom', from the book Deep Work by Cal Newport. That helped me a lot, and this post takes that concept to the next level.
On a side note, I just wanted to reach out and thank you for posting these insights- I have been transforming my life in the last period, and this blog has contributed greatly to that. Maybe more than I'd like to admit. The self-improvement posts are usually very insightful. Specifically, you have some great ideas that are so simple that I tend to think: 'I could have come up with that, and I maybe already knew it was the right thing to do, but somehow I never really believed that it would work for me'. Then you show and explain that it actually works, and how to do it. (Bit of a vague explanation here, but example post are: treating strangers like friends, love work, training yourself, the basics, carrying the load, doing things that are not supposed to be done).
So there's that, you've contributed to making my life significantly better. Hope that contributes to making your day. Looking forward to new posts!
When I was in high school and I had a week to do a paper, I would put it off. Not until two days before it was due, not until the night before it was due, and not even until the morning it was due. During the period before it was due, I would whip out my tiny Toshiba Libretto laptop and start churning away at it. Teacher's didn't mind, because it looked like I was taking notes for once. I'd be editing and touching it up right until the bell. When I got to my next class, I'd tell the teacher that I wasn't able to print it at home, and ask if I could go print it in the library.
I got a lot of Cs.
I think that being able to get things done under pressure at the last minute is a good skill to have. Putting yourself in the position of HAVING to do that every single day isn't so good, but that's the zone I've lived in for most of my life. Over time I learned that procrastination isn't just a "different way of doing things", but rather a true weakness. It's succumbing to the immediate desire for comfort rather than investing effort for the future. In my life now, it's inexcusable.
The upside of battling procrastinating for so long is that I've developed a pretty good understanding of why it happens and how to combat it. In this post I'll share a few of the most effective lessons I've learned.
A major realization for me -
Procrastination is fed by action to alleviate suffering.
It's very hard to procrastinate by sitting and looking at the work you want to do or are supposed to be doing.
If you're procrastinating on cleaning the mess up in your garage, it's almost impossible to do so by standing in your garage just staring at the mess for long periods of time. No, you have to go back inside your home and do something else.
If you're procrastinating on some work, it's very hard to do it by staring at the work materials and nothing else. No, you'll fire up your web browser or make phonecalls or go do something else.