I had to double, and then triple, check this, but apparently I've never written a post on minimalism before. Then again, I live in an RV smaller than your walk-in closet, so I don't suppose this post will come as a surprise to anyone. Still, it's probably worth writing a few paragraphs about it for anyone who is considering paring down, but has some lingering objections to it.
Back when I was a professional gambler and made a ton of money, I did what anyone with a lot of money would do: I bought a house. My house was about 1800 square feet, which isn't a big house by today's standards, but is quite a lot of space for one person. What I didn't consider was that a house comes bundled with pressure to fill it with stuff.
So I did. I bought tables, couches, chairs, beds, knick knacks, plants, pots, pans, dishes, and four robotic lawnmowers. I converted one of the rooms into a movie theater and another into a warehouse to store all of my stuff. If I wasn't a compulsive shopper, I was at least an enthusiastic one. All the while, I never really thought about the end-game of all this stuff. I knew how to get it into my life, but never really considered how I'd get it out eventually.
I was first confronted with disposing of some of my stuff when I moved into a loft downtown. It was modern, which means that it was just three big rooms that blurred into each other, and no real storage space. Some of my stuff had to go. The burden of selling and giving everything away was huge. It consumed days of my life. For the first time ever, I was inconvenienced by consumerism.
And along with the downsides of consumerism, I also began to see the upsides of minimalism. Even though I had only half as much stuff as I used to have, my life in the condo was the same. I realized that all of the stuff I had didn't really contribute to my happiness as I expected it might have.
Later that year I had to help my parents move. That added a few more points to the minimalism column, especially after they wouldn't let me hire a day laborer to do my share of the work.
But my first real experience with hardcore minimalism was when Todd and I set off on Life Nomadic in 2008. I would have brought a medium sized bag, but Todd suggested small ones instead. I agreed, and soon we both got rid of anything we owned that didn't fit into our 28 liter backpacks.
For months my heart would randomly skip a beat and I'd think, "oh no... did I remember to sell my extra TV?", and then I'd realize that if it wasn't in the backpack, I didn't own it anymore.
Since then, I've remained a minimalist. In some ways I've become even more extreme. My backpack is now only 22 liters. I have one pair of pants, two shirts, one pair of sandals, and two pairs of underwear. And a tuxedo, but I never wear that. The interior of my RV is a bit excessive, but I consider working on the RV to be more of a hobby than anything else. And, at the end of the day, having an extra monitor hanging from the wall or a huge inverter under the stove doesn't inconvenience me in any way.
I've never seen an example of someone becoming a minimalist and then reverting to having a lot of stuff. It's one of those changes that's scary to make, but once you get there you can't really imagine doing anything else.
So what's so great about minimalism? Well, the two areas of your life that DO contribute to happiness are increased: freedom and time.
The less stuff you have, the easier it is to move around, whether it's a two week trip to Japan or a permanent move to Boston. You get to make decisions based on real factors, not based on the hassle of schlepping your stuff around with you.
This week I'm selling a bunch of stuff on ebay, and meeting buyers and shipping is dominating my time. That's just one way that stuff steals your time. You have to organize it, clean it, buy it, repair it, look for it, and consider replacing it. For a few items that's not a big deal, but when you have a whole house, it adds up fast. I find it minorly stressful to be in someone's house who has a lot of stuff, because all I can think of is the chunk of one's life it would take to dispose of it.
If you want to try out minimalism, I suggest you set a goal of getting rid of half of your stuff. I have almost nothing, and I know that even I could live happily without half of my possessions. Throw away things that aren't worth anything, eBay things that are worth a lot, and give away what's left over. You don't have to count every single item you own, just keep a mental goal of "half" in your head.
For bigger items that you just can't bear to give away, like a car or bicycle, give it a trial by entrusting it to your friend for a couple months. My guess is that after a couple months you'll have practically forgotten about it. And, if not, maybe it's something you ought to keep. After selling my first load of stuff, the two things I missed were my RV and my electric skateboard, so I rebought both of them.
The reason I'm not trying to convince you to get rid of everything is because I know it's a nearly inevitable result of starting the process. I've seen it many times. Getting all of that stuff out of your life (and your mind) is addictive. The good kind of addictive, like how you supposedly get a runner's high when you run a lot.
Congratulations to my friends Charlie and Lisa for getting married! I had a great time at their wedding.
Last RV upgrade is done. Going to try to get that post / video ready by Thursday, but no promises. It's my last week before China/Japan, so I have a bunch of loose ends to tie up. Man... speaking of which... solar power is brutal in the winter. I'm getting about 30% of July capacity!
I have so many posts prewritten now that it's actually hard to wade through them all to pick one. Talk about a 180 from before!
Thanks for the great advice! I especially liked what you said about nobody going back to all their stuff once they've made the transition to minimalism. I hope that will hold true for me as well. :)
Since 2008 I've been purging purging purging. I know I have half what I used to have, but I can't stop! And that's a good thing. It's amazing how it just keeps getting easier.
I'm not saying that there isn't something to a degree of minimalism... But one pair of pants and two pairs of underwear? C'mon now.
That's bordering on homeless, not minimalist. Yes, we're a consumer driven society, but this is so far to the opposite extreme that it's hard to take any other info here seriously.
Minimalism's merits depends more on the person than the stuff, I think. I've been on both sides and I did come back from it. I've also never placed my sense of self in consumerism, though, and maybe that's a key difference.
We live in America, where you can have whatever you want. I suggest you all enjoy what you got. If you want to live with nothing, move to a country live Tajikistan.
If you have a big backlog of ready to go posts, maybe your ready to start a higher posting frequency? It will definitely increase your blog traffic.
One thing I want to add ... if there's something you really love, getting the proper storage so you can USE the stuff is vital. I've found that packing things to the brim drives me crazy. I can't find anything if it's too full. Doesn't matter if you have 2 pairs or 30 pairs of pants, if the 2 pairs are crammed into a space that's too small you'll wear the one pair you threw on the chair.
And sometimes if you have something properly organized you will use something more often because you don't have to hunt it down (I'm thinking of things like drill bits.)
I've gotten rid of a lot since I moved into a house... because it was my grandmothers and trying to get my stuff into the house with her 50 years worth of stuff made me want to own a lot less ... stuff. I'm still clearing out her stuff or else I might be able to say I own less in a house than I did in an apartment.
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What do you do with all the "memories". I think about this a lot. I am in my early 50's. My sibling is deceased as is my mother. My father is living, but he has been remarried for 35+ years. I am single, but have one son who is in college. I have all of the accumulations of the family. I'm looking at some of these things and am thinking I am the only one on the planet still who knows why it was significant. Some little thing that was my sisters (who died in her 20's) that my mother saved. Now I have it...how do you let this stuff go?
I was on the phone a couple days ago with my friend Hayden. After hearing about my plan to continue up to San Francisco, he predicted that within a year I would be living "somewhere posh". I doubt it. I really just love living in this RV, and can't imagine circumstances that would make me move out (famous last words). There are certainly upgrades I'd like to do (more solar, more batteries, more water capacity), but for now I have no inclination to move out.
Why do I love it so much? What makes me so willing to give up things like adequate floor space for a trash can? Here are six of my favorite things about living in an RV.
Moving becomes easy. As I skateboarded over to my favorite Ethiopian restaurant (Rahel on Fairfax), I realized that I am basically a Los Angeles resident. Not for tax purposes, of course, but I feel the same as when I lived here a few years ago. Visiting somewhere, complete with sightseeing, hotels, and rental cars, feels different than living somewhere. I may only plan on being here for a few weeks, but I feel like a resident.
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When I turned 30 and I had a minor freak out… I thought, "I'll be 40 in not long, and then 50… there's things I want to do in my life, and they're not happening at this pace."
Before that, I had a general idea of things I wanted to do and have in my life, but I went about in an unstructured way. It was good in a lot of ways. It made be a broad process, but not much depth.