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The other day I signed up for a 10 day meditation class/retreat/experience. Way back when I was in LA a friend of mine raved about this particular practice, Vipassana. I meant to go, but ten days was a lot to spare and I didn’t get around to it. Since then I think of doing it a couple times a year, but never end up fitting it in. Finally, two days ago, I put my name on a waiting list for a session in California, where I estimate I’ll be by the time it comes around.

I don’t know much about the particular practice, although the blurbs on the site sound promising. They say things like, “see things as they actually are”. Who wouldn’t want that?

The real appeal of going, though, is the extremity of it. It’s ten days straight of meditating for nine hours. Complete silence. Simple meals, tea, and simple lodging. That’s at least ninety hours of meditation I will have under my belt by the time I leave.

Up until now I haven’t really done any meditation. The notable exception is twenty minutes or so at the top of a sand dune in the Sahara. We made friends with a tour group from Italy. One of them gave us a yoga class under the stars, and the next prodded us into meditating.

Over the years I constantly hear rational people whose opinions I trust espouse the benefits of meditation. Once in a while I’ll give it a go for a few minutes, get restless, and give up. After this meditation class I’ll definitely know how to do it, and have an idea of whether or not it’s worth continuing.

As I signed up for the class, I was a little bit giddy. I love finding new semi-extreme things that I can do that fit this risk profile. If it works, the benefits are huge, but if it fails I’ve wasted just a little time and have probably learned something or at least gotten a story out of it.

And that brings me to my question: what would you have me try? I won’t put any restrictions on it, because I don’t want to stifle anyone’s creativity. The best answer would be something along the lines of, “I’ve always wanted to try _______ but I haven’t had the time/discipline/motivation” or “I got into _____ on a whim and it changed my life.”

Let me know what you’ve got.


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Jul 8th, 2009 @ 2:00 am

Tynan, I’m interested to see how it goes.

I’ve always wanted to try polyphasic sleep but haven’t found a way to work it with my work schedule.


Jonathan
Jul 8th, 2009 @ 2:01 am

I think you’ll like the comic strip on the subject of meditation which I saw yesterday:

http://comics.com/reality_check/2009-07-06/

:)


Ryan
Jul 8th, 2009 @ 2:33 am

At the Colorado Gator Farm (Google it), they have an afternoon course that teaches you how to wrestle alligators. It’s a bit of a drive, but well worth it, if you’re looking for a kick-ass story.


Tynan
Jul 8th, 2009 @ 2:43 am

@Sean: It’s easy to fit into a work schedule (besides the adjustment). Take your lunch break as 3 20 minute naps.

@Jonathan: Yeah… that’s 5% of why I’ve never done it before

@Ryan: You just made this post worth it. Thank you.

Tynan


Jake
Jul 8th, 2009 @ 4:34 am

Hey Tynan,

I did the Vipassana retreat about a year ago after hearing about it from a bunch of friends who all raved about it.

You will definitely get over your restlessness and be able to sit still for hours at a time by the end of the course.

One thing the instructors didn’t make clear is that you’re supposed to keep your mind unoccupied even when you’re oustide of meditation. So don’t think too hard about the next article you’re going to write while you’re there :)

Jul 8th, 2009 @ 6:45 am

Heres something I been wanting to try for a while now.

To live a completely organized and scheduled life for a while. Some of the best ground-breaking mental work and ideas Ive had came to me while I was in the police academy. I believe that had to do in part with the fact that they told me when to get up, when to exercise, when to eat and what, and even when to go to bed. Without being troubled with those menial activities, my mind was free to get some real work done.

I want to try a month or two where everything I do is scheduled, accounted for, and there for a reason.

Jul 8th, 2009 @ 8:32 am

I have always wanted to try kitesurfing, but have never really sought out the opportunity.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kitesurfing

Jul 8th, 2009 @ 10:44 am

I’ve always wanted to go on one of those Zero G space flights like the did on MythBusters and for some of those Apollo 13 scenes, but I’ve never had the money to do so.

http://www.gozerog.com/

Jul 8th, 2009 @ 10:54 am

I also always thought it would be cool to do an Urban Escape and Evasion class like Neil Strauss did in Emergency.

You have a gun right Tynan? Seems right up your alley.

http://onpointtactical.com/

Jul 8th, 2009 @ 12:02 pm

Big wall climbing. Spending 7 days on El Capitan in Yosemite National Park is simply mindblowing. Let me know if you want any hints on where to start.

Jul 8th, 2009 @ 1:06 pm

Long-time reader here.

My brother had a complete psychotic break after attending one of these meditation camps. He’s never been the same since, currently in Israel all day long (after graduating from Harvard).

I know it’s anecdotal, and probably has more to do with my bro’s brain than the extreme circumstances these places put you in, but…keep your guard up.

Jul 8th, 2009 @ 1:27 pm

I just ran my first marathon. Set an ambitious goal (mine was under 4 hrs) and give it a go!


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Jul 8th, 2009 @ 2:20 pm

I started dating bi-sexual girls and it changed my life. “Changed my life” might be a bit extreme, but in all seriousness i’ve found more fulfillment from it. Would be curious to hear your take on that.

Jul 8th, 2009 @ 2:30 pm

Ever rode a motorcycle? How about the iron butt — 1,000 miles in 24 hours, aptly named the SaddleSore! I did it and it changed my life!
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Peetuhr
Jul 8th, 2009 @ 2:31 pm

i spend alot of time finding and traveling to abandonned buildings or communities. theres so many of them to be found all over the place and its just such an awesome experiance camping out in a cluster of giant abandonned places with some friends and torches. make sure theyre good friends or they might think youre taking them out to kill them :P


Chris
Jul 8th, 2009 @ 3:19 pm

Tynan, I am so excited that you are going to go on this retreat. There’s a LOT of hype out there about meditation, but it really comes down to a couple of simple, basic things:

1) The most effective thing you can do is pay attention, regardless of what else is going on. Given your propensity for efficiency in all things, this should resonate with you.

2) Don’t take comfort for granted. Sitting still is not comfortable. Neither is much of what happens in our lives. But it will be okay anyway. Accepting this reality is LIFE CHANGING. If you can be okay with uncomfort and get on with what’s important, everything changes.

I’m really interested to hear about your experience!


elai
Jul 8th, 2009 @ 9:09 pm

If you go traveling in south east asia, you probably could get to do that for free as long as you help out in the temple a bit. And it would be in heart of Buddhism. That would be a definitely more kick ass version.


steve young
Jul 9th, 2009 @ 4:28 am

What is neat is that the restlessness just shuts off after 10 minutes or so. But you have to try for the 10 minutes.


Lachlan
Jul 9th, 2009 @ 11:16 am

I always wanted to try not wearing shoes for a long period of time.
But alas part time work got in the way.


Erica
Jul 9th, 2009 @ 6:28 pm

Hike a part of the Appalacian trail. The whole thing would take a crazy amount of time, but even a 2-4 week backpack would be really cool.

Jul 10th, 2009 @ 4:56 pm

That sounds like it is going to be an awesome experience. I had a friend that did something similar while she was in India and said it completely changed her outlook on life. I will look forward to reading the results!

Jul 10th, 2009 @ 8:43 pm

I just signed up for a 9-day harmony singing camp in Vermont. And I’m really not a good singer to begin with. Always fun to jump into things head first though…

http://www.northernharmony.pair.com/summercamp/2009/VHA_greenmountain.html


Patrick
Jul 14th, 2009 @ 6:11 am

Got a few thousand bucks?

Need to do something cool for 11 minutes?

Boom!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lqsU3BDABP8

On a related note, ever since I read “Ender’s game” I’ve wanted to launch a space station with a zero gravity sports arena. Just waiting for 20 billion dollars to fall into my lap.

Jul 18th, 2009 @ 11:01 am

Tynan,
One of my stripper friends has talked me into exotic dancing when she comes back this fall. She dances a couple times a month at Rick’s in Austin. It sounds like hilarious fun and depending on how much cash you want to make; it’s possible to bring in a few grand in one night, but that might involve some private shows for rich gay guys.
Is this challenging enough for ya?


Matthew
Aug 2nd, 2009 @ 1:20 am

I got into a Theravada Practice of meditation through my teacher. I got training by a Thai Forest Monk. Vipassana is a part of their whole practice. The best part is its free, or as much as you want to give them. The way it works is you call the abbot of the Metta Forest Monestary, Near San Diego and ask him if you can stay there. Then you go and live like a monk.

For more info check out there web site at http://www.watmetta.org/
I only stayed for a few days but I’m going back within the next few months.


Matt
Aug 4th, 2009 @ 3:57 pm

It’s awesome that your gonna practice meditation. I noticed the results are similar to vegan food. Meditation is like good food for the mind. Here’s a solid guided meditation if you wanna get a head start:
http://www.accesstoinsight.org/lib/authors/thanissaro/breathmed.html

Aug 26th, 2009 @ 10:21 pm

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Jan 25th, 2010 @ 3:59 pm

Try Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu! You might fall in love with it, as you are obviously keen on otherwise healthy and awesome lifestyle choices.

Jan 25th, 2010 @ 9:50 pm

I second that last comment, try Brazilian Jiu Jitsu or MMA.

I train 5 days a week now, every week. It’s the most fulfilling thing I’ve ever done in my life, and I think you’ll love it.

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Oct 10th, 2010 @ 7:00 am

Learn archery. :)

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