Comments on: Judging http://tynan.com/judging Life Outside The Box Mon, 06 Feb 2012 18:42:58 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: David Blackhttp://tynan.com/judging/comment-page-1#comment-213771 David Black Sun, 07 Dec 2008 19:15:42 +0000 http://www.tynan.com/judging.htm#comment-213771 You can never stop judging people its in our biological makeup. But how you act on these judgements is what really counts.You can counteract this initial judgement by ignoring it and treating that individual as you would anyone else.Treat others how you want to be treated and life will be so much better. You can never stop judging people its in our biological makeup. But how you act on these judgements is what really counts.

You can counteract this initial judgement by ignoring it and treating that individual as you would anyone else.

Treat others how you want to be treated and life will be so much better.

]]> By: Joehttp://tynan.com/judging/comment-page-1#comment-213617 Joe Fri, 05 Dec 2008 23:24:00 +0000 http://www.tynan.com/judging.htm#comment-213617 True, true.To dissolve the prejudice is to make a conservation. For awhile, I made a prejudice. When we chat, it was the day I change and I realized I made a bad thoughts and wasted those gems we could enjoy.Move on and forth, there will be no judgment.And other thought, I don't enjoy when people judge me without constructive or ask me before they made an assumption. So, in return, I will do the same thing because I know know wha it feel like.The best learning experience you can get is from talking to someone you don't know.The world will be a better place when we get out of our comfort zone and explore a new entity. True, true.

To dissolve the prejudice is to make a conservation. For awhile, I made a prejudice. When we chat, it was the day I change and I realized I made a bad thoughts and wasted those gems we could enjoy.

Move on and forth, there will be no judgment.

And other thought, I don’t enjoy when people judge me without constructive or ask me before they made an assumption. So, in return, I will do the same thing because I know know wha it feel like.

The best learning experience you can get is from talking to someone you don’t know.

The world will be a better place when we get out of our comfort zone and explore a new entity.

]]> By: Ravihttp://tynan.com/judging/comment-page-1#comment-213270 Ravi Tue, 02 Dec 2008 05:19:31 +0000 http://www.tynan.com/judging.htm#comment-213270 I'm consistently amazed at how wrong I am in judging people.Heck...I hate to think what people think about me or my family on first sight! I’m consistently amazed at how wrong I am in judging people.

Heck…I hate to think what people think about me or my family on first sight!

]]> By: Gholahttp://tynan.com/judging/comment-page-1#comment-213230 Ghola Mon, 01 Dec 2008 19:08:04 +0000 http://www.tynan.com/judging.htm#comment-213230 What a great lesson. I find that being able to judge situations is a good thing. Judging people, is maybe not so good. Usually for me it comes down to - what is it that informs a judgement the most? Is it more heavily weighted by an objective understanding of the situation at hand, or is it more heavily weighted by my own baggage? All too often I come to the conclusion that the weight of my own baggage causes my judgements to say more about me than about the subject I'm supposedly judging. As a tool for reflection that's okay. Unfortunately the whole process has side effects that go beyond just me though, and usually that's a pile of wreckage I'd rather not leave behind me if I can avoid it. What a great lesson. I find that being able to judge situations is a good thing. Judging people, is maybe not so good. Usually for me it comes down to – what is it that informs a judgement the most? Is it more heavily weighted by an objective understanding of the situation at hand, or is it more heavily weighted by my own baggage? All too often I come to the conclusion that the weight of my own baggage causes my judgements to say more about me than about the subject I’m supposedly judging. As a tool for reflection that’s okay. Unfortunately the whole process has side effects that go beyond just me though, and usually that’s a pile of wreckage I’d rather not leave behind me if I can avoid it.

]]> By: Célestehttp://tynan.com/judging/comment-page-1#comment-213227 Céleste Mon, 01 Dec 2008 18:29:48 +0000 http://www.tynan.com/judging.htm#comment-213227 great postprobably it's impossible to stop judging,but just as you said it's vital to not to listen to your first impression judgements, or at least be able to revise them, when you get to know somebody. and of course it should never stop you from meeting people.regards C great post

probably it’s impossible to stop judging,but just as you said it’s vital to not to listen to your first impression judgements, or at least be able to revise them, when you get to know somebody. and of course it should never stop you from meeting people.

regards
C

]]> By: elaihttp://tynan.com/judging/comment-page-1#comment-213224 elai Mon, 01 Dec 2008 17:29:47 +0000 http://www.tynan.com/judging.htm#comment-213224 If someone is flying, it puts doubts in the poor category. If someone is flying, it puts doubts in the poor category.

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