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NEWSFLASH: Karaoke with me Tonight!

A year ago there was something called "Krunkaoke" every wednesday night at a club nearby. I went religiously and became one of the few creepy superstar regulars who dropped hot gangsta classics every Wednesday. The first time I went I was really nervous, but after doing "How We Do" by The Game, I was hooked. Eventually Krunkaoke became too packed (is that possible?), and they cancelled it!

Desperate for a Karaoke fix, I started going to Rain, which is a gay club a couple blocks from where I live. They had a cool light up stage, but the mediocre sound system and guys trying to grab my ass left me looking for alternatives.

Then one night it happened. I was working late and I thought I heard bad singing at the club downstairs. Could it be... Karaoke?

Ben Folds Five in Korea

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While at work Friday, Melissa and I were checking out an events website online and were surprised to see Ben Folds Five were coming to Seoul... SUNDAY. We immediately bought tickets. One ticket was $100. I know, it seems really steep but it’s Ben Folds Five and my high school angst would not allow me a missed opportunity to cry and question my sense of self. At 30 I feel this is the only acceptable venue to get emo and ramble on about the band’s side projects and how much their music has “evolved” over the last decade. I can go to a Ben Folds five concert and no 14 year old is going to look at me like “What the hell are you doing here?"

When we walked into the venue I noticed it was relatively small and intimate, much like the Austin City Limits stage. We were about second row standing from the stage. 95% of the audience were Korean and half of them were sitting in the balcony enjoying the show. There was no pushing, no one trying to shove their way to the front, no one even touching any part of my body. However, there was a lot of clapping in unison, swaying during slower songs, and one-finger pointing towards the stage during the faster songs but that never hurt anybody. I stood comfortably for 2 hours.

Some clever Korean girl passed around bags of neon colored paper airplanes to throw on stage during “Army.” It was awesome. You know what else was awesome? Ben Folds Five performed “Brick.” The bass guitarist broke a string and to help tune the new bass the band jammed to Eye of the Tiger. Most of all having Ben Folds Five sing these lyrics to a Korean audience:

Oh-oh if you’re feeling small, and you can’t draw a crowd

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