Here's a question I get a lot. "Hey, I really want to do ( some cool project or life change ), and I have it all figured out, but there's no way for me to ( overcome one single obstacle )".
I like receiving questions and am usually happy to answer them, but this one drives me up the wall. There's NO WAY? Really?
Notice that the question isn't "Hey, I really want to do ( some cool project or life change ), and I have it all figured out, but I can't figure out how to ( overcome one single obstacle ). So far I've tried ( one possible solution ) and ( another possible solution ) and ( a third possible solution )".
I've never gotten that question.
Here's how doing hard things actually works: You work on it until you hit a roadblock. Once you hit the roadblock, you try to figure out a solution. If that doesn't work, you try something else, and keep trying new things until you finally solve the problem.
Thinking isn't enough. If you think you can't solve a problem, try anyway. It's way too easy to think ourselves out of hard work. Decide that you can't conquer something only once you've come at it from every possible angle.
Most people fail in their mind well before the action ever surfaces to real life.
A common manifestation of this question is people wanting to travel but not knowing how to make money on the road. Fair enough-- making money on the internet is a bit tricky because if you know an easy way to do it you don't tell anyone, and the hard ways take time and effort.
You wouldn't believe the simple things that stop people, though. I remember one guy saying he couldn't afford the web hosting and domain name. That's about five dollars a month. You mean to tell me that you think you're going to have a successful business, but you aren't scrappy enough to find a way to come up with five bucks a month?
I find that a lot of my advice boils down to this: do something now. Just do something. Move in any direction that isn't the polar opposite of your goal. Thinking isn't a substitute for action, it's leverage for your action. Without action, thinking won't get you anywhere.
Do something now.
what's that quote.. it goes something like this: Even if you're on the right track, you'll still get run over if you just sit there.
Oh!!! I love your post. thank you. I can not sometimes force myself to get to work or start doing something. I hope you will write about it more
Agreed. Good stuff. Now can you get rid of the annoying 'sign up to get...' off? I'm signed up. I read 'em.
What would Seth Do?
You are very right! I love your posts and am trying to live the nomadic life. I really didn't know how to start or where to begin. You and Tim Ferris kinda gave me the "holy crap, I can do this" that I needed. My current struggle is what I think has been called a high quality problem. How to get to work while sitting on a beach in Zihuatanejo and the glare on the computer screen is a bit too much...
Tynan, I've been reading since nearly the begining of your blog and I think this is the single best post on this topic you've written.
This will help many people.
The most obvious advice is often the hardest for people to understand and it is always good to be reminded.
I want to disagree with the fellow above me though who said "you have to fail before you can succeed". I think if you truly fail you can never succeed. However if you learn from what didn't work then you are a step closer to success albeit on a different path than you intended.
Just my narrow world view though :)
There are way too many day-dreamers that want life handed to them on a silver platter. Unfortunately, life doesn't work that way. You have to fail before you can succeed
I wish there was a bootcamp that could just ingrain in people a bias for action. DOING is often overlooked.
The only web comic I read is XKCD. It's smart, funny, and often times educational. I'm a fan. The latest comic is a criticism of pickup. There ARE certainly valid criticisms of pickup, but Randall took a cheap and inaccurate shot at it. I've shrunken it below, but you can see the original here.
I'm one of the main characters of The Game, have been going out every night since February first (except the last week, where I got caught up on some work), and am friends with most of guys who contributed substantially to the pickup community. In other words, I know what I'm talking about.
All of those guys are either too busy to defend pickup, or just sick of having to do it yet again. But hey, it's Thursday night and I haven't written a blog post this week, so I'll take a crack at it.
I was recently approached by a friend in the venture capital industry who asked me to write about my experience as an entrepreneur and transplant to Silicon Valley. Here's the resulting transcript of our discussion. I'm publishing it in the hopes that it helps other entrepreneurs, as well as those who haven't yet taken the leap but want to.
Can you tell me about the fundraising cycles your company has gone through?
We began in Washington D.C. in 2008 in a townhouse on Capitol Hill. It was a terrible time to fundraise due to the financial crisis, so we self-funded a mobile consulting firm called PointAbout which built mobile apps for large brands, including Disney, The Washington Post, The Huffington Post, Newsweek, Cars.com and many others. That firm quickly grew to over 30 employees (and a much nicer space in DC -- although still a townhouse!)