Sexy. If I think she's sexy, she's sexy.
Takes care of herself. Is physically active. Puts in the effort to keep her body nice.
Sexual, in touch with her sexuality, and not uptight about sex. Every girl I've seriously dated has been bi, coincidentally.
Liberal. Pro gay marriage. Pro individual freedoms. Pro choice.
Educated and intelligent. She doesn't need a phD or to be Marilyn Vos Savant, but she needs to be smart enough to carry on a conversation, and she needs to read and enjoying learning.
Music lover. Any girl that likes "whatever's on the radio" isn't going to get along well with me. She needs to have individual tastes, they don't need to match mine, but they need to be developed. If she dislikes the beatles, that could be a dealbreaker. I've yet to know anybody who was sane and normal and truly disliked the beatles. I know some people who are too cool for them though.
She has to be an eater. I can date veggies and vegans, I flip flop between healthy omnivore and healthy veggie, but she has to respect, appreciate, and love food. Open to all ethnicities, open to trying new foods all the time, not too squeamish. Can't eat fast food too often. That shit is nasty.
Can't be an alcoholic. If you have to ask me if you drink too much, you already know the answer hun. Can't be a drug addict. If you smoke weed once a month, whatever. If your life is drugs and druggies, I'm past that point, thanks but no thanks.
Can't be overly religious. Don't push it on me. Don't push it on others. Don't assume that, if there is an afterlife, your group is the only one going.
Must have a positive attitude and self confidence. Must not be codependent. If you can't be happy alone, you'll never be happy in a relationship.