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I want to help you make 2011 the year you got off the beaten path and started living life on YOUR terms. To make sure we stay in touch, please subscribe to my RSS.

And somehow we’re done with 2011 already. Last year I made one goal (getting this site to the top 50k in Alexa), and I didn’t make any effort whatsoever to reach it, so at this point I’m giving up on yearly goals. But I will say this– if SETT isn’t rocking and rolling by this time next year, I’d better be a famous rapper.

I may be blind towards the future but hindsight is 20/20, so I’m going to a quick summary of the year.

Travel

When asked where I live, I always respond that I’m in San Francisco for half of the year and out of the country for about a third. I never actually knew how accurate that was until an hour ago when I went through all of my credit card reciepts and Tripit account to make a detailed list of everywhere I was this year. It turns out I was right on the money. Here are some stats:

Cities visited: 42

Countries visited: 18 (Portugal, Spain, Monaco, France, Italy, UK, Norway, Sweden, Iceland, China, Japan, Malaysia, Thailand, Germany, St Maarten, Antigua, Barbados, Panama, US)

New countries visited: 8 (Monaco, Italy, Norway, Sweden, Iceland, Germany, Antigua, Barbados)

169 days in San Francisco (46%)
116 days out of the country (32%)
80 days in the country, out of San Francisco (22%)

31 days on a cruise ship (8%, overlaps with the above)
35+ flights

Overall, a pretty good year for travel. I did some good trips, saw some awesome new places (Berlin, Stockholm, Shanghai, and Iceland topping the list), and had adventures. At times it felt like I was rushing around a bit too much, but counter-intuitively, I got way more work done while traveling than when in SF.

 Work

During the first half of the year my work habits were subpar. The best way to explain is to say that I simply wasn’t taking things seriously.

Some time during the year I experienced a mental shift, where all of a sudden it seemed idiotic to be wasting time with entertainment or useless crap when I have big goals that I’m not on track to reach. Let’s say that there are four categories of things to do:

1. Things I want to do
2. Things I REALLY want to do

3. Things that are productive
4. Things that are REALLY productive

The first category is stuff like IM chatting with an acquaintance or watching TV or a movie or going to a party. The second category is stuff like camping in Japan or playing poker in the World Series.

The third category is stuff like redesigning my blog or making new business cards. The fourth category is things like building new features for SETT or writing blog posts.

I don’t know what my time expenditure breakdown was before the shift, but afterwards I’ve almost completely cut out the first category. To a lesser extent, I’ve also cut out the third category. Now I spend about 20% of my time doing stuff I REALLY want to do, 65% on REALLY productive stuff, and the last 15% on the others.

Shifting so much of my attention and time towards REALLY productive stuff is by far the biggest change I made this year. My guess is that I used to spend about 15% of my time on this kind of work, based on feel as well as lines of code committed per week.

Firsts

I did a lot of cool first things this year:

Created SETT
We technically started in December of last year, but everything substantial was built since then. SETT has taken more of my time and effort than anything else, and I’m more excited about it than anything else.

Learned to drive a motorcycle
I took my first motorcycle driving class on January 1, 2011, so I’ve been riding for just about a year (I didn’t actually buy a motorcycle for a couple months). Biking has actually become a significant part of my life– it’s an enjoyable part of every day.

Flew a helicopter
I had always wanted to fly a helicopter, and finally got the chance to do it with a quick first lesson. Flying around is pretty easy; hovering is insanely difficult.

Played in the Word Series of Poker
Another long term dream was to play in the World Series of Poker. I played the $1500 buy-in Limit event and came in #100, one place above Jennifer Harman. Over the past year I’ve gone from being a losing poker player to a winning one, which is pretty cool.

Duing the portion of the year before I got serious about SETT, poker took up a lot of my time. It’s nowhere near as important as SETT, but it’s a really positive skill for the mind as well as the wallet.

Rapped for 1000+ people
In Mauerpark in Berlin, I had the chance to rap for over 1000 people in the Best Karaoke Ever. Video below.

 Book hit the top 1000 kindle books
Thanks to the advice of Karol Gajda and the support of you guys, Life Nomadic was in the top 1000 Kindle books (out of over a million). That’s the top .1%!

Fed a baby leopard and pet a bunch of tigers
I really like animals, and while I was in Thailand this year I had the chance to get close to a bunch of them. I fed a baby leopard who sat in my lap, pet a bunch of tigers (and walked a small one), and swam with sharks.

Rode the fastest train in the world and a private jet for the first time
I’m a sucker for superlatives, especially when it comes to trains, it seems. I’ve now ridden the slowest train (although it’s decommissioned now) as well as the fastest, which is the Mag-Lev in Shanghai.

Thanks to JetSuite, I got to ride in a private jet not once, but twice! And, inspired by Kanye, I wore my PJs in the PJ.

Spoke at SXSW
Thanks to Jason Boehle, I got to speak at SXSW in Austin this year. That was another item on my must-do-before-I-die list, so I’m extremely grateful for the opportunity. Even better than getting to speak was getting a really great reception from a standing-room-only audience.

What could be better

I’m really happy with and proud of the things I did this year, but I think I could have done a lot more, especially in the beginning of the year. Too much time was spent just loafing around in San Francisco.

My dating life this year was abyssmal. I broke up with a long term girlfriend in March and have barely dated since then. I’m happy that I put work over dating (or productivity over pleasure, speaking more abstractly), but there’s time for both. In February I’ll be going out for 30 days in a row, so this should be fixed soon enough.

If I was going to grade my year, I’d give it a B+, penalizing myself primarily for not hustling a bit more, especially in the beginning of the year. I think that the biggest thing I need to focus on is not becoming complacent. I’m happy and have everything I need, so sometimes I have to prod myself to fire on all cylinders and really hustle.

Right now I’m working really hard, have several really exciting trips floating around as possibilities, and will be getting back into the dating scene, so 2012 will be started with some good momentum. I hope you had a great 2011 and are also going to crush it in 2012.


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There are 16 Comments.


Chad
Dec 29th, 2011 @ 8:12 am

I’ve been reading your Life Outside the Box for awhile now and I must say that it is good reading. I don’t travel as much as you do, but I really stretched myself going to Russia in September. For a 60YO geezer that’s not bad. I’ve read your Life Nomadic and it help. In January I’ll be going to Paris with my Russia girlfriend, so life is pretty good for me.


Danny
Dec 29th, 2011 @ 9:12 am

- I think you have way more than 1000 people in the audience. you really did good!
- I have to say that your sxsw speech was one of the biggest highlights of my 2011
- one questions on your categories, do you not have things you do although you don’t want to do them?
- as an SF local, I wish to run into you on the street in 2012 :)
- Happy new year!!


Tynan
Dec 29th, 2011 @ 10:39 am

@Danny I don’t understand the question about the categories…

Dec 29th, 2011 @ 12:50 pm

Inspiring, and frankly you’ve done a TON this year! Remember everything is relative! See you in SF

Dec 29th, 2011 @ 2:31 pm

life..you’re doing it right:)


Ian
Dec 29th, 2011 @ 4:10 pm

LOL about wasting time with “useless crap.”
I use that exact phrase almost
daily! Sounds like a great year.
Congrats on the Kindle ranking. Very cool.


Ian
Dec 29th, 2011 @ 4:23 pm

Me again… Maybe it’s b/c I’m 38 and
remember when “Under Pressure”… er…
I mean “Ice Ice Baby” came out.
As we say in New England, Wicked Cool.


Jake
Dec 30th, 2011 @ 3:12 pm

Dude, you wanted to start your PU challenge on January, stop procrastinating.
Anyway, I’ve just finished a 30 day challenge (I keep going actually) and it was amazing. If you want to get some tips on it, I’ll be willing to talk with you about it. My e-mail is provided.

About goal setting, I’d recommend you this.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NHopJHSlVo4

I get the feeling this is affecting you a lot as you seem like a very social person.
It changed this for me, too.


Tynan
Dec 30th, 2011 @ 3:20 pm

@Jake I’m not procrastinating, just waiting for a friend to get back in the US. Promised him I’d do the 30 days with him, but he’s getting back into the country later than expected.

I’ve experimented with public goals and private goals…. doesn’t have a big effect on me.


Jake
Dec 30th, 2011 @ 4:27 pm

Excuses. Do 30 days in January on your own, then do another 30 with your friend.
This shit is fucking fun man. First couple of approaches per night in the first week are tough, but then it’s fucking glory.

Going out solo has been amazing for my self-actualisation. You’ll learn so much about yourself, who you are, how to push through your own resistance, how to socialize… all things that help you in literally any other area of your life as well. And you get sex as a reward, can’t see why not everybody is doing that. Honestly.

It doesn’t take that much time either. Instead of fucking watching a tv series or a movie go out and pimp it for 30minutes to 1 h then go hard on thursday-sat.


Jack
Dec 30th, 2011 @ 8:10 pm

Acyley i don’t relly give a beep about this post!. Have a great new year!!!!!!:)


Paul
Jan 1st, 2012 @ 1:43 pm

“I’ve now ridden the slowest train”

Was it an Amtrak? D:

Jan 1st, 2012 @ 4:55 pm

42 countries in a year? Man you’re an animal :)

Good luck in 2012!


Alexis
Jan 1st, 2012 @ 11:07 pm

very nice round up, And yeah to put in a word being complacent is honestly the #1 productivity killer. So many times I have eveything I want, my life is floating along swimmingly when in fact i should stop being so complacent and take some serious action. Its weird, its hard to combat, but i find the best way is changing your current situation to make your realize how much complacency is making you miss out on

Jan 2nd, 2012 @ 3:04 am

[...] by Tynan’s excellent 2011 post, I decided to follow suit with my own year-end progress [...]

Jan 13th, 2012 @ 10:22 pm

Dig your year in review. I hadn’t thought of the categories like that before. Right now I’m doing a “Priorities” list (imminent things I must tackle to reach goals, similar to your #4) and a “Could Do” list (similar to #2 + 3) and block off an hour or two for #1 each day. I add to each list (could do & priorities) as soon as I think of an item, so I’m never at that “oh crap, i finished something now and i have free time what do i do now” spot. Gonna write a post about it soon.

Seems your system is working for you. Oh and congrats on SETT!

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