And somehow we're done with 2011 already. Last year I made one goal (getting this site to the top 50k in Alexa), and I didn't make any effort whatsoever to reach it, so at this point I'm giving up on yearly goals. But I will say this-- if SETT isn't rocking and rolling by this time next year, I'd better be a famous rapper.
I may be blind towards the future but hindsight is 20/20, so I'm going to a quick summary of the year.
When asked where I live, I always respond that I'm in San Francisco for half of the year and out of the country for about a third. I never actually knew how accurate that was until an hour ago when I went through all of my credit card reciepts and Tripit account to make a detailed list of everywhere I was this year. It turns out I was right on the money. Here are some stats:
Cities visited: 42
New countries visited: 8 (Monaco, Italy, Norway, Sweden, Iceland, Germany, Antigua, Barbados)
169 days in San Francisco (46%)
116 days out of the country (32%)
80 days in the country, out of San Francisco (22%)
31 days on a cruise ship (8%, overlaps with the above)
Overall, a pretty good year for travel. I did some good trips, saw some awesome new places (Berlin, Stockholm, Shanghai, and Iceland topping the list), and had adventures. At times it felt like I was rushing around a bit too much, but counter-intuitively, I got way more work done while traveling than when in SF.
During the first half of the year my work habits were subpar. The best way to explain is to say that I simply wasn't taking things seriously.
Some time during the year I experienced a mental shift, where all of a sudden it seemed idiotic to be wasting time with entertainment or useless crap when I have big goals that I'm not on track to reach. Let's say that there are four categories of things to do:
1. Things I want to do
2. Things I REALLY want to do
3. Things that are productive
4. Things that are REALLY productive
The first category is stuff like IM chatting with an acquaintance or watching TV or a movie or going to a party. The second category is stuff like camping in Japan or playing poker in the World Series.
The third category is stuff like redesigning my blog or making new business cards. The fourth category is things like building new features for SETT or writing blog posts.
I don't know what my time expenditure breakdown was before the shift, but afterwards I've almost completely cut out the first category. To a lesser extent, I've also cut out the third category. Now I spend about 20% of my time doing stuff I REALLY want to do, 65% on REALLY productive stuff, and the last 15% on the others.
Shifting so much of my attention and time towards REALLY productive stuff is by far the biggest change I made this year. My guess is that I used to spend about 15% of my time on this kind of work, based on feel as well as lines of code committed per week.
I did a lot of cool first things this year:
We technically started in December of last year, but everything substantial was built since then. SETT has taken more of my time and effort than anything else, and I'm more excited about it than anything else.
Learned to drive a motorcycle
I took my first motorcycle driving class on January 1, 2011, so I've been riding for just about a year (I didn't actually buy a motorcycle for a couple months). Biking has actually become a significant part of my life-- it's an enjoyable part of every day.
Flew a helicopter
I had always wanted to fly a helicopter, and finally got the chance to do it with a quick first lesson. Flying around is pretty easy; hovering is insanely difficult.
Played in the Word Series of Poker
Another long term dream was to play in the World Series of Poker. I played the $1500 buy-in Limit event and came in #100, one place above Jennifer Harman. Over the past year I've gone from being a losing poker player to a winning one, which is pretty cool.
Duing the portion of the year before I got serious about SETT, poker took up a lot of my time. It's nowhere near as important as SETT, but it's a really positive skill for the mind as well as the wallet.
Rapped for 1000+ people
In Mauerpark in Berlin, I had the chance to rap for over 1000 people in the Best Karaoke Ever. Video below.
Fed a baby leopard and pet a bunch of tigers
I really like animals, and while I was in Thailand this year I had the chance to get close to a bunch of them. I fed a baby leopard who sat in my lap, pet a bunch of tigers (and walked a small one), and swam with sharks.
Rode the fastest train in the world and a private jet for the first time
I'm a sucker for superlatives, especially when it comes to trains, it seems. I've now ridden the slowest train (although it's decommissioned now) as well as the fastest, which is the Mag-Lev in Shanghai.
Thanks to JetSuite, I got to ride in a private jet not once, but twice! And, inspired by Kanye, I wore my PJs in the PJ.
Spoke at SXSW
Thanks to Jason Boehle, I got to speak at SXSW in Austin this year. That was another item on my must-do-before-I-die list, so I'm extremely grateful for the opportunity. Even better than getting to speak was getting a really great reception from a standing-room-only audience.
What could be better
I'm really happy with and proud of the things I did this year, but I think I could have done a lot more, especially in the beginning of the year. Too much time was spent just loafing around in San Francisco.
My dating life this year was abyssmal. I broke up with a long term girlfriend in March and have barely dated since then. I'm happy that I put work over dating (or productivity over pleasure, speaking more abstractly), but there's time for both. In February I'll be going out for 30 days in a row, so this should be fixed soon enough.
If I was going to grade my year, I'd give it a B+, penalizing myself primarily for not hustling a bit more, especially in the beginning of the year. I think that the biggest thing I need to focus on is not becoming complacent. I'm happy and have everything I need, so sometimes I have to prod myself to fire on all cylinders and really hustle.
Right now I'm working really hard, have several really exciting trips floating around as possibilities, and will be getting back into the dating scene, so 2012 will be started with some good momentum. I hope you had a great 2011 and are also going to crush it in 2012.
Dig your year in review. I hadn't thought of the categories like that before. Right now I'm doing a "Priorities" list (imminent things I must tackle to reach goals, similar to your #4) and a "Could Do" list (similar to #2 + 3) and block off an hour or two for #1 each day. I add to each list (could do & priorities) as soon as I think of an item, so I'm never at that "oh crap, i finished something now and i have free time what do i do now" spot. Gonna write a post about it soon.
Seems your system is working for you. Oh and congrats on SETT!
very nice round up, And yeah to put in a word being complacent is honestly the #1 productivity killer. So many times I have eveything I want, my life is floating along swimmingly when in fact i should stop being so complacent and take some serious action. Its weird, its hard to combat, but i find the best way is changing your current situation to make your realize how much complacency is making you miss out on
Excuses. Do 30 days in January on your own, then do another 30 with your friend.
This shit is fucking fun man. First couple of approaches per night in the first week are tough, but then it's fucking glory.
Going out solo has been amazing for my self-actualisation. You'll learn so much about yourself, who you are, how to push through your own resistance, how to socialize... all things that help you in literally any other area of your life as well. And you get sex as a reward, can't see why not everybody is doing that. Honestly.
It doesn't take that much time either. Instead of fucking watching a tv series or a movie go out and pimp it for 30minutes to 1 h then go hard on thursday-sat.
@Jake I'm not procrastinating, just waiting for a friend to get back in the US. Promised him I'd do the 30 days with him, but he's getting back into the country later than expected.
I've experimented with public goals and private goals.... doesn't have a big effect on me.
Dude, you wanted to start your PU challenge on January, stop procrastinating.
Anyway, I've just finished a 30 day challenge (I keep going actually) and it was amazing. If you want to get some tips on it, I'll be willing to talk with you about it. My e-mail is provided.
About goal setting, I'd recommend you this.
I get the feeling this is affecting you a lot as you seem like a very social person.
It changed this for me, too.
Me again... Maybe it's b/c I'm 38 and
remember when "Under Pressure"... er...
I mean "Ice Ice Baby" came out.
As we say in New England, Wicked Cool.
I've given up on doing my yearly or bi-yearly goals. Why? I don't actually do them, and I don't actually care. I like having a somewhat chaotic life, changing my priorities and focus as I go along. Most of the time when I look back at my previous incomplete goals I'm glad I didn't complete them, or at least I'm glad I sacrificed them for other goals. When I do actually complete a yearly goal, it tends to be because it remained important to me, not because I was constantly referring back to my goal list.
This year I'm going to try something a little bit different. I'm going to cover what I did this year and what I could have done better.
Here's what I did that I'm happy about:
Another year went by. Wow. Once again I changed my life goals and plans more than a dozen times. This year I learned a lot about myself and struggled to find who I am. After being purged from my fraternity I lost a large chunk of who I thought I was. Most of my free time was spent on the fraternity, so once it was removed I was kind of just left to my own devices. In addition, I was evicted from my house at around the same time which forced me to live on campus by myself. I no longer had friends around me all the time and I became a bit of a hermit for a whole semester. I spent nearly all my time with my girlfriend Lisa. Looking back, I feel sad I took myself so seriously. I sacrificed too much time playing poker and missed out on many opportunities to enjoy my youth. Sacrificing all that time playing poker would have made sense if I worked harder at becoming better, but I didn’t.
I recovered my health from previous bad choices this year…somewhat. I’m a much better poker player at this date than last year, however everyone else is a lot better too. I tried to breakup with Lisa 4 times before I finally pulled the trigger. I visited over a dozen new countries and over 30 new cities. I spent around 1,200 hour at the casino this year and had wild swings. I thought I was going to become the best poker player and earn $100+/hr many times and I also thought I was going to go broke many times lol.
I’m most proud of overcoming my social anxieties this year through pickup.I’ve always wanted to try “cold approach” but honestly never had the balls to do it. This year I did. I mostly partook in drunken pickup in Europe during my 57 day Euro tour, but after I came back and choded around at the casino for a couple of months I took some action and am leaps better than where I was. I am definitely most proud of my success in this area.I’m no don juan by any means, but I grew by 200% or 300% in this area.
Lots of good moments this year: